The Double Mastectomy Rebellion

by Vicki on July 10, 2015

This video was produced by the Wall Street Journal Video. What do you think about what’s presented in this video? I’d love to hear from you if you had a DOUBLE MASTECTOMY despite your doctor’s advice.



The Heroines Choir

by Vicki on May 4, 2015

Marilyn and ChoirPink-Link member, Marilyn Van Houten is a member of The Heroines Choir. I’m a Facebook friend and have seen her post photos of this group and asked if she would like to write a guest post. Not only did she write a post, her friend, Alice who founded the group, also wrote a post. I’ve combined the two articles here.

From Marilyn:


Three years ago in March I attended the first THC (THE HEROINES CHOIR) practice.  I was impressed that besides the breast cancer woman, we had a professional voice teacher and a founder/artistic director who was full of energy and enthusiasm! She started the choir after losing a very good friend to the disease.

I immediately felt a sense of comfort in the chorus, bringing forth childhood memories of singing in school & church and with my musical family.  After the first practice I knew this was my new passion & mission, to help promote THC as a fun & therapeutic activity to help breast cancer survivors become thrivers!

Just 7 short months later THE HEROINES CHOIR was performing in front of big crowds of breast cancer supporters and survivors.  Every time we performed I felt the tremendous endorphin rush of the stage but also experienced the excitement and pleasure of the audience enjoying the songs as much as we did! But I saw something in their teary eyes beyond enjoyment; we were showing them they can not only survive breast cancer but learn new things, thrive & have fun again!

Although my own untrained voice had been damaged by the harsh chemo/radiation of triple negative breast cancer I began to learn how breathing and chi gong (incorporated into the beginning of each rehearsal) could help me despite the residuals of treatment. If you have experienced chemo brain you may be wondering how we memorize the lyrics and melodies.  The research shows, singing use’s all parts of the brain.   They are no excuses, we each do our best, and we all are learning to sing together, becoming so close that our heart beats begin to synchronize through our harmony!

On May 9th will be my 10 yr. CANCERTHRIVERVERSARY (stage 2B triple negative breast cancer) I am celebrating as a “Model of Hope” for the Day of Caring for breast cancer education & awareness.

From Alice, founder of The Heroines Choir:

Cancer, like any other life threatening trauma, changes your perspective about life indelibly. Some remain defined by it and others confront their mortality and find a new way of living often driven by appreciation. The latter serve as the basis for our very special support group, The Heroines Choir. We don’t deny that the stages of anger, denial, etc. are important to recognize. However, we do adhere to the idea that eventually one must stand up and fight courageously only to ultimately celebrate this amazing roller coaster ride we call life. We gather not to discuss our ailments and treatments, but to challenge chemo brain with new learning experiences that generate synaptic growth. To oxygenate our systems with proven breathing techniques creating an inhospitable environment for new cancer cells to grow. To fulfill childhood dreams of being onstage and inspiring thousands of victims to become victors and to fully enjoy ourselves in an atmosphere of love and tolerance. The best part is that none of our Heroines come to us as singers. Thereby the process of learning this wonderful new skill affords clear opportunities to gauge progress and growth in the areas of mind, body and spirit. Research studies prove what we know in our hearts to be true, that singing improves wellness on many levels for many reasons.

Our sessions begin with meditation and chi gung (Chinese art of breathing) followed by vocal warm ups and training with our fabulous choir Directress, Ms. Annie Mendez. It’s amazing we get anything accomplished with all the laughing we do. But to date, we have performed throughout Miami for over 68,000 people in private and public festivals and events, small and large. We meet on Sunday afternoons in both North & South locations and all women are welcome. We understand that caregivers, family and friends share the cancer experience also and need great empowerment tools like The Heroines Choir, so, we are open all who want to learn to sing and gain control over their physical and psychological health. This program operates on donations through my non profit agency, Heroes Unite and we are always seeking support in the form of sponsorship, networking, fundraising or steering committees. I can be reached at ,



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